The guy i'm dating lives with his ex

And i was made to feel unwelcome in the home, as if it was set up like she was the wife and i was the visitor. As i explained to him, it’s not that i minded the wait though if he had waited a few more minutes, i would have come out and we could all have gone together.

Dating a man living with his ex

If it’s a red flag for someone not to introduce a girlfriend to their friends why is it not a red flag to avoid telling the live in ex?! However, she also decided that under no circumstance was i to be at the house, and that she didn't want me spending time with her it’s over, right?

There is no way for a woman to know what a man’s character is until he’s shown her, and i believe you agree with me. I will continue to tell my 12-year old nephew not to get in a car with a guy just because he says he needs help looking for his lost puppy.

At times i get frustrated because i want to be able to go to his house and enjoy those moments together. Just because i don’t trust a guy 100% within the first five minutes of meeting him doesn’t mean i’m scrolling through his phone the first time he goes to the mens room.

I don’t think he owes his ex anything emotional at this after considering evan’s and some other commenters’ arguments, i’ve softened my stance a little. And if you truly believe this statement that “most men cannot articulate why they’re unhappy in a relationship to that level of detail — they only know they’re stressed and unhappy in a relationship….

If the pest guy comes to my house a few times and nothing goes missing, then i’ll trust him. However, i would require firmer boundaries in the form of a due date for her to move out.

As someone trying to survive in new york city, i think it’s understandable for someone to live with whoever they need to if they can’t afford to move out, especially if they were living with them before entering into a new relationship. It’s possible that he’s lying – but does lying fit with everything the op knows about him so far?

His new girlfriend may be rolling with the punches, i thought their situation was interesting enough to share. And before you ask me how i’d like it if a guy did that to me, i’d say bring it on.

Some of us have had  a version of this same situation in one way or another, over and over.. Agree with the comments that i don’t think he owes his ex anything emotional at this point, but maybe he is being a good guy by trying to protect her feelings, esp if he is the one who broke up with her.

That goes for the pest guy and a man i’m considering dating/having a relationship with. He must have really loved his ex-gf to allow her to pick his condo at open-houses.

Men would get the first look at some exes boxers on the floor and amy would be sitting there with no returned phone call wondering what happened binging on sex & the city & dryers! Perhaps he’s just protecting his emotionally fragile ex instead of rubbing her face in the fact that he’s kicking her out and dating someone else.

Her ex-husband and kids loved me and were spending a lot of time with me, often leaving her as the my boyfriend and his ex-wife were both developing new relationships, continuing the living situation became seriously awkward, and they decided it was time for a divorce. The red flag to me is that the ex gf doesn’t know about the new gf.

I thought to myself in that moment how tired i was of her presence controlling everything i gh i could quite literally smell her while having sex with my boyfriend, i decided, fuck it, if she comes up here and sees what we are doing, maybe she will finally have had enough and that will be the end of it all. Of course every relationship is different, and this guy might be sincere in his plans for the future, but you should ask him if he wants a long term relationship with you, or if he just wants some quick fling.

And if she has the power to make him want to protect her “emotions” 10-months after they’ve broken up, you don’t think she can manipulate him into having sex with her? We’re not supposed to give guys the impression we don’t trust them, then how is this statement saying i do trust you?

It sucks that you were cheated on 4 times and it’s understandable that you feel the way you do. Why does everyone keep missing this fact and jumping to the conclusion that i’m a stalky, sneaky emotionally unhealthy psycho-bitch?

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